Go to your nearest target. Buy a two pack of pushup bras (24$ for 2), and target’s bra inserts (12$). Then go to your nearest Walmart and buy the Vasserette Control Shapewear Panties (2.50 each), they do wonders for helping your tuck. There you go! You just saved yourself a lot of money, you can afford to buy enough to wear every day, and best of all you look fabulous. -@twidx
recs for trans women are so rare on tumblr!! spread this, people.
A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed it was.
The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar was full.. The students responded with a unanimous ‘yes.’
The professor then produced two Beers from under the table and poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty space between the sand.The students laughed..
‘Now,’ said the professor as the laughter subsided, ‘I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the important things—-your family, your children, your health, your friends and your favorite passions—-and if everything else was lost and only they remained, your life would still be full. The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and your car.. The sand is everything else—-the small stuff.
‘If you put the sand into the jar first,’ he continued, ‘there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls. The same goes for life.
If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are important to you.
Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness.
Spend time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with grandparents. Take your spouse out to dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and mow the lawn.
Take care of the golf balls first—-the things that really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand.
One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the Beer represented. The professor smiled and said, ‘I’m glad you asked.’ The Beer just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, there’s always room for a couple of Beers with a friend.
This just changed me
I wonder how feminists will react to this
Probably ignore it then go back to making male tears mugs and gifs
Actually this is a very common idea among feminists
It’s something feminists have been talking about for years it’s called toxic masculinity and it’s one of the common threads among the topic of ‘Patriarchy hurts men too’. If fact the first time I read about toxic masculinity was on a feminist blog.
If you actually read things feminists talk about instead of straw manning them you might know this but OH WELL
The number 3 is color orange and January is moody, according to synesthetes. They are blessed with the natural ability, thought to be passed on by genes, of a blending of senses, in which the brain’s sensory centers remain connected on two levels.
My back xrays and results. Have some compound fractures in my thorasic . nothing is Strait, have second Phase spinal degeneration and I have lost 62% of my rotationary motion. My wife has full on skuliosis abd similar issues however without her permission so I won’t go to into that.
There is a documentary due to be released on norwegian television about this little girl, named Emma. She’s a 12 year old trans girl, and I’m rooting for her so much! When asked why she wanted to do the documentary, she answered “to show others that they can be who they’re supposed to be, and that they’re not alone” (◕‿◕✿)
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How Anxiety makes you think at 11 pm when your wake. Alone . And everyones been sleeping for 2-3 hours
Warming ultra personal
Today I found out only 4 of my Vertebrae are positioned Some what properly. 0 cerebral.2 thorasic. 3 lumbar. hence why my back Hurts so much. When I’m talking about my body this is most likely what I’m referring to.
I feel so alone. My body hurts. Emotionally I know I’m a reck. I am terrified. I love my wife but I honestly don’t feel like I’m good enough. I know she has tough days yet I bitch about stupid shit. She is so amazing. And all I seem to do is get irritated and manage to piss her off after hard days. All I want is to make her happy and all I do is fail. I can’t help her with her emotionally issues. I can’t help her with her physical issued without being a nagging bitch. I can’t help her stay Healthy bc im just a broken pice of shit. I feel like My body is trying to tell me that I should give up bc im a fuck up. How am i sopose to make her happy when im so stupid and broken. Why would she even want to deal with me/this. Am I just a burden she won’t admit…does she regret having to deal with me… probly…just wont tell me bc then id cry and cause me issues… She is my everything. And I just want her happy even if it means my death. If I could be given the chance to have her truly happy inside and out it would be worth any price. Even death. But all I do is make her frustrated and then just make it worse. I’m good for nothing. I can’t make my wife happy. I’m useless. If only I wasn’t physically broken. Mabey I wouldn’t cause as many issues. At least then I could make her a little bit happier than I do now. why must I be such a fuck up. I don’t want to give up on the best thing in life but what if that’s what’s best for her. What if she’s better off without me. She wouldn’t be wasting time with dealing with my bulshit instead of focusing on herself. I’m Just in the way. All I do is get in the way…shed be so much happier not dealing with bulshit. Not worrying about the rent. Or animals. Our feeding both of us. Who gets the car when. My scary mom. cost of dates. Decorating. Me Not having a steady job of any job. God im such a nuance. Why did I propose and cause her so many issues. .. I was so selfish and stupid. She is worth so much and I’m just a piece of shit with half assed icing to disguise it. Fuck. I’m so sorry. I’m just a fuck up that ruined everything for you babe. .. You make me so happy Just by holding me and all I do is cause you issues. …